As a couple that have both dealt with melanoma skin cancer, although not at stage 4, we felt that Cathy could be either one of us if we stop paying attention to any of our moles or skin spots. Should we ever be faced with a similar diagnosis, we would hope that we would be much more comfortable involving our family and friends from a support and communication standpoint.
We will find much better ways to spend our time other than watching "The Big C"– like watering the lawn, pulling weeds, doing dishes...
Fritz